U Up?

Comedian Chloe Radcliffe joins J&J to talk about her new Comedy Central special, Eyes Down Here, and her solo show, Cheat, which explores her history of infidelity! Chloe talks about emotional cheating, the difference between microcheating and crossing a line, and how open she is with her partner and why being honest about flirting can actually make a relationship stronger. The three discuss how Chloe’s birthmark affected her confidence and dating life, and why we think a listener should not get plastic surgery just because her boyfriend asked her to!
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Happy Anniversary to U Up? and J&J! It’s officially 9 years of taping the podcast! They are going back in time and revisiting some of their earliest dating advice from 2017. Will they agree with their former selves? They revisit questions like whether calling your parents every night is a red flag, dating someone who has never said “I love you,” getting caught in a messy relationship beginning, and how many drinks are too many on a first date. They revisit 9 listener questions and see how their answers have changed! They also talk about how late is too late to arrive to a date, performance anxiety, inspirational IG quotes, and if a man who cries in public is actually hubby material.
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Jared and Jordana catch up on life and, specifically, their current locations. Jared is missing the comedy scene in NYC, while Jordana shares how raising a family is going! They then watch a TikTok of a woman giving dating advice, suggesting that women should tell men they need to be “babied” to make them want to take care of them. Also, J&J give their ruling on a Gift Edition of Judge and Jury, weighing in on boyfriends’ attempts at jewelry gifts, a stressful spa day, and a boyfriend who regifted a corporate gift!
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Jared and Jordana find an interview with Chelsea Handler, who hired a family therapist for her ex's kids so she can still have a relationship with them post-breakup with their dad, and we're wondering: Is this how we should approach breakups? They then discuss a listener who is dating a man two inches shorter than her, another whose ex won't pay back half the rent, and whether a wedding ring tattoo means a gym crush is off-limits! Lastly, some red flags or dealbreakers you don't want to miss, including a grown man with just two pairs of underwear and socks. Is he a guy you should continue dating?
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It’s a Happy Halloween here at the BETCHES studios with Jordana and Jared, who are dressed as a big baby and a praying mantis. They’re ranking Halloween costumes, from Hercules and Phil to Monica and Chandler in Barbados and more! J&J tell all singles in their 20s, 30s, and 40s what they need to be doing on Halloween night, and that’s finding a party!! Lastly, they bring back Awkward Encounter about a woman whose ex gets confronted by his new girlfriend, who asks her for a naughty Halloween party request.
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