Trauma Healing for Christian Women - Regulate Emotions, Intrusive Thoughts, Nervous System, Anxiousness, Overthinking, EMDR

Why am I still struggling with the same stuck points and going in circles with the cycle of triggers, intrusive thoughts, tightness in my gut and chest, and frustration and hurt every day when I understand what happened to me?
Trauma needs a different kind of healing than simply "solving a problem."  It needs to be PROCESSED.
And, you can't process something that deep with mere talk therapy tools.  You need to get the body, emotions, Holy Spirit, and thought cycle working together rather than at odds.  Trauma healing is possible, but you need different tools and a different experience than regular weekly talk therapy can provide.  If you are ready to really learn what it takes to get unstuck and heal from trauma, Listen in!
When You Need Help Going Deeper
You don't have to suffer through this alone.
If slowing down brings up overwhelming emotions, memories, body sensations, or experiences that are difficult to regulate, working with a qualified trauma therapist may help you explore what's underneath your reactions more safely.
Trauma therapy can help you understand the connection between your current triggers and earlier experiences while developing healthier ways of responding in the present.
You don't have to force yourself through something overwhelming in order to heal.
Christian Trauma Therapy and EMDR Intensives in Pennsylvania
If you keep wondering, "Why do I react this way when I know I'm safe?", there may be something underneath the reaction that needs attention.
WANT MICHELLE AS YOUR THERAPIST?
Have you been looking for a Trauma-Informed Therapist who is also a Christian?  Do you want to honor your faith even in your therapy without having to explain it to a secular counselor?  Would you love to incorporate deep healing in a way that aligns with God's Word and evidence-based treatments for trauma healing to really PROCESS your trauma ONCE AND FOR ALL?
Have you considered EMDR therapy?
I offer THERAPY INTENSIVES which help you to go deeper and get faster and more complete results than weekly therapy can provide.  Learn more at: www.emdrpittsburgh.com.
For a Free Consultation Call:   If you would like to see about working with me in an EMDR Intensive, you can schedule a free 15 minute consultation call so that we can get to know each other and see if I am a good match for your therapy needs. 
Go to www.calendly.com/michellecroyle to connect with me.
 
FACEBOOK COMMUNITY:
Join our free Facebook Community For Encouragement and Support: CLICK HERE
 
FREE RESOURCE:
If this episode resonated, you might be interested in my free resource.   I created a free, faith-honoring guide that gently explains how healing happens in the body and why you're not failing. 
Free Trauma Healing Resource Guide
 
*All content is for informational and educational purposes only and is not to be considered professional counseling.  If you need professional therapy, please seek it out, and if you are in immediate danger, please contact emergency services near you.

Why Is My Childhood Still Affecting Me? How Childhood Trauma Shows Up in Adulthood
Do you ever wonder, "Why is my childhood still affecting me when I'm an adult now?"
Maybe you understand what happened in your childhood. You've prayed about it, thought about it, talked about it, or tried to move past it. But certain situations still trigger anxiety, shame, people-pleasing, fear of rejection, overthinking, anger, relationship struggles, or the urge to shut down and protect yourself.
You may know better now — but somehow, you still don't always feel differently.
In this episode of Trauma Healing for Christian Women, Michelle Croyle, LPC, EMDR-Certified therapist, explains why childhood experiences can continue to affect your emotions, beliefs, relationships, and nervous system long after childhood is over — and why that doesn't mean you have to stay stuck there.
 
Why Does Childhood Trauma Affect You as an Adult?
As children, we interpret painful, confusing, embarrassing, frightening, or overwhelming experiences with a child's brain and a child's understanding of the world.
We don't yet have the perspective, experience, emotional tools, or problem-solving abilities we develop as adults.
So we adapt.
We may learn to hide, stay quiet, please people, avoid vulnerability, disconnect from our feelings, expect rejection, take responsibility for other people, or believe something painful about ourselves.
Those responses may have helped us get through something then.
But what protected us in childhood can become the very thing keeping us stuck in adulthood.
When You Need Help Going Deeper
Not every trauma response should be explored alone.
If slowing down brings up overwhelming emotions, memories, body sensations, or experiences that are difficult to regulate, working with a qualified trauma therapist may help you explore what's underneath your reactions more safely.
Trauma therapy can help you understand the connection between your current triggers and earlier experiences while developing healthier ways of responding in the present.
You don't have to force yourself through something overwhelming in order to heal.
Christian Trauma Therapy and EMDR Intensives in Pennsylvania
If you keep wondering, "Why do I react this way when I know I'm safe?", there may be something underneath the reaction that needs attention.
THERAPY WITH MICHELLE
Have you been looking for a Trauma-Informed Therapist who is also a Christian?  Do you want to honor your faith even in your therapy?  Would you love to incorporate deep healing in a way that aligns with God's Word and evidence-based treatments for trauma healing?  
I offer THERAPY INTENSIVES which help you to go deeper and with faster results than weekly therapy can provide.  Learn more at: www.emdrpittsburgh.com.
For a Free Consultation Call:   If you would like to see about working with me in an EMDR Intensive, you can schedule a free 15 minute consultation call so that we can get to know each other and see if I am a good match for your therapy needs. 
Go to www.calendly.com/michellecroyle to connect with me.
 
FACEBOOK COMMUNITY:
Join our free Facebook Community For Encouragement and Support: CLICK HERE
 
FREE RESOURCE:
If this episode resonated, you might be interested in my free resource.   I created a free, faith-honoring guide that gently explains how healing happens in the body and why you're not failing. 
Free Trauma Healing Resource Guide
*All content is for informational and educational purposes only and is not to be considered professional counseling.  If you need professional therapy, please seek it out, and if you are in immediate danger, please contact emergency services near you.
IN THIS EPISODE
In this episode, Michelle shares a funny but surprisingly revealing story about a second-grade crush — and what happened when a friend exposed her secret.
Her childhood solution?
Hide. Deny the feelings. Don't let yourself be seen.
It reduced the embarrassment in the moment, but it also prevented the very connection she actually wanted.
That simple childhood story illustrates something much bigger:
Children create ways of surviving situations they don't yet know how to handle.
And sometimes we carry those same rules into adulthood without realizing it.
Your rules might sound more like:
Don't let people see the real me.

Don't make anyone angry.

I have to keep everyone happy.

My feelings aren't important.

I can't trust people.

I have to handle everything myself.

If someone is upset, I must have done something wrong.

It's safer not to need anything.

I have to be perfect to be accepted.

I shouldn't be angry.

I need to disappear when conflict happens.

These patterns aren't necessarily who you are.
They may be ways you learned to protect yourself.
When Survival Patterns Stop Helping
One of the most important questions Michelle asks in this episode is:
What are you still living by that is now hurting you?
Maybe a childhood response helped you survive rejection, criticism, emotional neglect, embarrassment, instability, betrayal, conflict, or another painful experience.
You don't have to hate that response or shame yourself for developing it.
Instead, you can begin asking:
That helped me get here — but will it help me get where I want to go?
Healing gives you the opportunity to understand where these patterns came from, process the experiences underneath them, and decide what you want to carry forward and what you are finally ready to leave behind.
Can EMDR Help With Childhood Trauma?
EMDR therapy can help people identify and process painful experiences, beliefs, triggers, and patterns that continue to affect them in the present.
In her work with EMDR therapy intensives, Michelle helps clients explore the experiences connected to their current stuck points, process what still needs healing, and develop healthier ways of understanding themselves and responding in the present.
You aren't a child anymore.
Today, you can bring adult perspective, compassion, new experiences, new choices, and God's truth back to places where a younger version of you didn't have those resources.
You get to decide:
What do I want to keep — and what am I ready to let go of?
In This Episode, You'll Learn
Why childhood experiences can still affect you as an adult

How childhood trauma can influence adult relationships and emotions

Why children sometimes blame themselves for things they couldn't understand

How protective childhood behaviors can become adult patterns

Why shame and vulnerability can lead to hiding or avoidance

How childhood beliefs can influence anxiety and overthinking

Why understanding a pattern isn't always enough to change it

How your nervous system can continue responding to old experiences

How to recognize survival strategies that no longer serve you

How trauma therapy can help you process childhood wounds

How EMDR can address beliefs, triggers, memories, and stuck points

How faith and evidence-based trauma therapy can work together

How to approach your younger self with compassion rather than judgment

How healing can help you respond from your adult self instead of an old wound

Questions This Episode Answers
Why is my childhood still affecting me?
Childhood experiences can shape beliefs, emotional responses, relationship patterns, and protective behaviors before you have an adult's ability to understand what is happening.
Why do I keep repeating childhood patterns?
Some patterns began as ways of protecting yourself or maintaining safety and connection. Even when circumstances change, those learned responses can continue automatically.
Can you heal childhood trauma as an adult?
Yes. Healing can include understanding your patterns, processing unresolved experiences and emotions, developing new perspectives and learning healthier ways to respond in the present.
Can EMDR help with childhood wounds?
EMDR is one approach Michelle uses to help clients process experiences and beliefs connected to present-day triggers and stuck points.
Can Christian faith and trauma therapy work together?
They don't have to compete. Evidence-based trauma therapy can respect your Christian faith while helping you understand and address emotional wounds, nervous-system responses, beliefs, and patterns that continue to affect your life.
Ready to Stop Letting the Past Run the Present?
You may understand your childhood intellectually and still feel as though your mind, emotions, relationships, or body haven't gotten the message that you're safe to respond differently now.
You don't have to keep living according to rules you developed when you were too young to know another way.
If you're ready to understand what's keeping you stuck and explore deeper trauma healing, Michelle Croyle, LPC, is an EMDR-Certified trauma therapist offering EMDR therapy and therapeutic intensives in Pennsylvania.
Visit EMDRPittsburgh.com to learn more about trauma therapy and EMDR intensives or to schedule a free 15-minute consultation with Michelle.
You can also find the link in the show notes to join the free Trauma Healing for Christian Women Facebook community.
About Michelle Croyle, LPC
Michelle Croyle is a Licensed Professional Counselor and EMDR-Certified therapist who helps Christian women work through anxiety, trauma, emotional wounds, painful relationship experiences, and patterns that continue to keep them stuck. She is the host of Trauma Healing for Christian Women.
Her approach brings together evidence-based trauma therapy, nervous-system awareness, and respect for Christian faith — because you shouldn't have to choose between good therapy and having your faith understood.
If this episode helped you, share it with someone who may need it and consider leaving a rating or review so more women can find the show.
This podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health treatment or a therapeutic relationship.
When anxiety or a trigger hits, your nervous system may respond before your logical mind understands what's happening.
You might notice yourself:
Talking faster
Moving faster
Trying to fix everything
Becoming unusually angry
Feeling an urgent need to leave
Avoiding uncomfortable feelings
Becoming perfectionistic
Shutting down or withdrawing
Worrying about being judged
Feeling like you're not good enough
Instead of immediately asking, "How do I make this feeling stop?", it may help to become curious about why your system reacted in the first place.
Could This Be a Trauma Response?
Sometimes your reaction isn't only about what's happening now.
Your nervous system may have learned a strategy during an earlier experience that helped you avoid rejection, criticism, embarrassment, abandonment, helplessness, or another painful experience.
Maybe you learned to move faster.
Maybe you tried to make everything perfect.
Maybe you withdrew before someone could reject you.
Maybe you learned to anticipate other people's reactions.
Maybe you pushed uncomfortable emotions away so you wouldn't have to feel them.
Those strategies may have served a purpose at one time.
The problem comes when your nervous system continues using an old survival strategy in situations where the original threat no longer exists.
Perfectionism Can Be About Safety
Imagine someone is coming to your house and you suddenly feel frantic.
You don't simply want to straighten up. You feel like you have to make everything perfect.
What's underneath that urgency?
What if someone sees how you really live?
What if they judge you?
What if they think you're a bad wife or mother?
What if someone sees that you're not perfect?
The intensity may be telling you something.
Perfectionism isn't always about wanting things done well. Sometimes it can be connected to fear, criticism, rejection, vulnerability, or an old belief about what you need to do to be accepted.
Why Do I Overreact to Small Things?
If your emotional or physical reaction seems much bigger than the situation in front of you, consider whether something older may have been activated.
You may notice:
"This situation isn't actually dangerous, but my body feels like it is."
That can be an important clue.
A current experience can sometimes activate emotions, body sensations, beliefs, or survival responses connected to something that happened much earlier.
Instead of criticizing yourself for your reaction, you can become curious about it.
Slow Down and Notice
When you notice yourself becoming frantic, tense, angry, avoidant, shut down, or unusually activated, slowing down may help you understand what's happening.
If you feel safe enough to explore it on your own, you might ask:
What am I feeling right now?
What am I afraid will happen?
What does this remind me of?
When have I felt this way before?
What am I telling myself right now?
What do I believe I need to do to stay safe?
Is that still true today?
Sometimes slowing down allows you to see the connection between what you're doing now and what your nervous system learned to do years ago.
Your Nervous System May Need New Information
An old response doesn't have to remain your automatic response forever.
Once you recognize the pattern, you may be able to give your nervous system a small experience that challenges the old expectation.
Maybe you don't make the house perfect before your friend comes over.
Maybe you stop studying once you know the material.
Maybe you allow someone to see a little imperfection.
Maybe you slow down instead of talking faster.
Then you notice:
I'm still okay.
I wasn't rejected.
Nobody attacked me.
I didn't have to be perfect to be safe.
Experiences like these can begin giving your brain and nervous system new information about what's safe now.
When You Need Help Going Deeper
Not every trauma response should be explored alone.
If slowing down brings up overwhelming emotions, memories, body sensations, or experiences that are difficult to regulate, working with a qualified trauma therapist may help you explore what's underneath your reactions more safely.
Trauma therapy can help you understand the connection between your current triggers and earlier experiences while developing healthier ways of responding in the present.
You don't have to force yourself through something overwhelming in order to heal.
Christian Trauma Therapy and EMDR Intensives in Pennsylvania
If you keep wondering, "Why do I react this way when I know I'm safe?", there may be something underneath the reaction that needs attention.
THERAPY WITH MICHELLE
Have you been looking for a Trauma-Informed Therapist who is also a Christian?  Do you want to honor your faith even in your therapy?  Would you love to incorporate deep healing in a way that aligns with God's Word and evidence-based treatments for trauma healing?  
I offer THERAPY INTENSIVES which help you to go deeper and with faster results than weekly therapy can provide.  Learn more at: www.emdrpittsburgh.com.
For a Free Consultation Call:   If you would like to see about working with me in an EMDR Intensive, you can schedule a free 15 minute consultation call so that we can get to know each other and see if I am a good match for your therapy needs. 
Go to www.calendly.com/michellecroyle to connect with me.
 
FACEBOOK COMMUNITY:
Join our free Facebook Community For Encouragement and Support: CLICK HERE
 
FREE RESOURCE:
If this episode resonated, you might be interested in my free resource.   I created a free, faith-honoring guide that gently explains how healing happens in the body and why you're not failing. 
Free Trauma Healing Resource Guide
*All content is for informational and educational purposes only and is not to be considered professional counseling.  If you need professional therapy, please seek it out, and if you are in immediate danger, please contact emergency services near you.

Why Do I Rush Past My Feelings? Anxiety, Trauma Responses, and What Your Nervous System Is Trying to Tell You
Do you find yourself rushing through uncomfortable feelings, talking faster when you're anxious, frantically trying to fix things, avoiding difficult emotions, or feeling like you just need to get past something as quickly as possible?
There may be a reason.
Sometimes what looks like rushing, perfectionism, avoidance, overreacting, shutting down, or trying to control everything around you can be an automatic survival response.
Your nervous system may be responding to something happening today based on what it learned during an earlier experience.
In this episode of Trauma Healing for Christian Women, Michelle Croyle, LPC, EMDR-Certified therapist, explains how slowing down and paying attention to your reactions can help you recognize what your nervous system may be trying to tell you.
Why Do I Rush When I'm Anxious?
When anxiety or a trigger hits, your nervous system may respond before your logical mind understands what's happening.
You might notice yourself:
Talking faster
Moving faster
Trying to fix everything
Becoming unusually angry
Feeling an urgent need to leave
Avoiding uncomfortable feelings
Becoming perfectionistic
Shutting down or withdrawing
Worrying about being judged
Feeling like you're not good enough
Instead of immediately asking, "How do I make this feeling stop?", it may help to become curious about why your system reacted in the first place.
Could This Be a Trauma Response?
Sometimes your reaction isn't only about what's happening now.
Your nervous system may have learned a strategy during an earlier experience that helped you avoid rejection, criticism, embarrassment, abandonment, helplessness, or another painful experience.
Maybe you learned to move faster.
Maybe you tried to make everything perfect.
Maybe you withdrew before someone could reject you.
Maybe you learned to anticipate other people's reactions.
Maybe you pushed uncomfortable emotions away so you wouldn't have to feel them.
Those strategies may have served a purpose at one time.
The problem comes when your nervous system continues using an old survival strategy in situations where the original threat no longer exists.
Perfectionism Can Be About Safety
Imagine someone is coming to your house and you suddenly feel frantic.
You don't simply want to straighten up. You feel like you have to make everything perfect.
What's underneath that urgency?
What if someone sees how you really live?
What if they judge you?
What if they think you're a bad wife or mother?
What if someone sees that you're not perfect?
The intensity may be telling you something.
Perfectionism isn't always about wanting things done well. Sometimes it can be connected to fear, criticism, rejection, vulnerability, or an old belief about what you need to do to be accepted.
Why Do I Overreact to Small Things?
If your emotional or physical reaction seems much bigger than the situation in front of you, consider whether something older may have been activated.
You may notice:
"This situation isn't actually dangerous, but my body feels like it is."
That can be an important clue.
A current experience can sometimes activate emotions, body sensations, beliefs, or survival responses connected to something that happened much earlier.
Instead of criticizing yourself for your reaction, you can become curious about it.
Slow Down and Notice
When you notice yourself becoming frantic, tense, angry, avoidant, shut down, or unusually activated, slowing down may help you understand what's happening.
If you feel safe enough to explore it on your own, you might ask:
What am I feeling right now?
What am I afraid will happen?
What does this remind me of?
When have I felt this way before?
What am I telling myself right now?
What do I believe I need to do to stay safe?
Is that still true today?
Sometimes slowing down allows you to see the connection between what you're doing now and what your nervous system learned to do years ago.
Your Nervous System May Need New Information
An old response doesn't have to remain your automatic response forever.
Once you recognize the pattern, you may be able to give your nervous system a small experience that challenges the old expectation.
Maybe you don't make the house perfect before your friend comes over.
Maybe you stop studying once you know the material.
Maybe you allow someone to see a little imperfection.
Maybe you slow down instead of talking faster.
Then you notice:
I'm still okay.
I wasn't rejected.
Nobody attacked me.
I didn't have to be perfect to be safe.
Experiences like these can begin giving your brain and nervous system new information about what's safe now.
When You Need Help Going Deeper
Not every trauma response should be explored alone.
If slowing down brings up overwhelming emotions, memories, body sensations, or experiences that are difficult to regulate, working with a qualified trauma therapist may help you explore what's underneath your reactions more safely.
Trauma therapy can help you understand the connection between your current triggers and earlier experiences while developing healthier ways of responding in the present.
You don't have to force yourself through something overwhelming in order to heal.
Christian Trauma Therapy and EMDR Intensives in Pennsylvania
If you keep wondering, "Why do I react this way when I know I'm safe?", there may be something underneath the reaction that needs attention.
THERAPY WITH MICHELLE
Have you been looking for a Trauma-Informed Therapist who is also a Christian?  Do you want to honor your faith even in your therapy?  Would you love to incorporate deep healing in a way that aligns with God's Word and evidence-based treatments for trauma healing?  
I offer THERAPY INTENSIVES which help you to go deeper and with faster results than weekly therapy can provide.  Learn more at: www.emdrpittsburgh.com.
For a Free Consultation Call:   If you would like to see about working with me in an EMDR Intensive, you can schedule a free 15 minute consultation call so that we can get to know each other and see if I am a good match for your therapy needs. 
Go to www.calendly.com/michellecroyle to connect with me.
 
FACEBOOK COMMUNITY:
Join our free Facebook Community For Encouragement and Support: CLICK HERE
 
FREE RESOURCE:
If this episode resonated, you might be interested in my free resource.   I created a free, faith-honoring guide that gently explains how healing happens in the body and why you're not failing. 
Free Trauma Healing Resource Guide
*All content is for informational and educational purposes only and is not to be considered professional counseling.  If you need professional therapy, please seek it out, and if you are in immediate danger, please contact emergency services near you.

Why Do I Feel Like I'm Not Good Enough? How Childhood Experiences, Trauma, and Your Nervous System Keep You Stuck
Why do you feel insecure or not good enough, even when you logically know you have value? Why do you compare yourself to other people, worry about what they think, or feel like everyone else has life figured out while you're somehow falling short?
These feelings may not mean there is something wrong with you. They may make much more sense when you understand how childhood experiences, trauma, learned beliefs, and your nervous system can influence the way you see yourself today.
In this episode of Trauma Healing for Christian Women, Michelle Croyle, LPC, EMDR-Certified therapist, explains how experiences from childhood can become beliefs and survival strategies that continue into adulthood—even when you no longer need them.
You may intellectually know, "I am good enough," "I am safe," or "God gave me value," while another part of you still feels rejected, inadequate, unsafe, or afraid of what other people think.
That disconnect can be an important clue.
Why Do I Feel Like I'm Not Good Enough?
Human beings naturally want connection, belonging, safety, and acceptance. When we are young, experiences involving criticism, rejection, comparison, achievement, belonging, or not having our emotional needs adequately met can influence the conclusions we make about ourselves.
A child may conclude:
"I'm not good enough."
"I have to prove myself."
"I need people to approve of me."
"If someone is unhappy with me, I must have done something wrong."
"I have to be the best to have value."
"It isn't safe to disagree."
"I need to fit in so I won't be rejected."
Those conclusions can make sense to a child trying to understand the world.
The problem comes when we're adults but our nervous systems are still responding according to rules we learned much earlier in life.
In This Episode, You'll Learn
Why you may constantly feel like you're not good enough
Why comparing yourself to other people can be connected to safety and belonging
How childhood experiences can create beliefs that follow you into adulthood
Why criticism or rejection can feel disproportionately threatening
How people-pleasing and needing approval can become survival strategies
Why knowing something logically doesn't necessarily make you feel it emotionally
How your nervous system can continue responding to an old threat after the danger has passed
Why certain situations can suddenly make you feel like a child again
How trauma therapy identifies the beliefs and experiences underneath current struggles
How EMDR therapy can help you process experiences that continue to feel unresolved
Why healing involves updating old information rather than simply trying harder to change your thoughts
How Christian faith, emotional healing, and trauma therapy can work together
Why Do Childhood Beliefs Still Affect Me as an Adult?
Children interpret experiences with the information and developmental abilities they have at the time.
If you weren't chosen for something, you might have concluded, "Nobody wants me."
If you struggled academically, you might have concluded, "I'm dumb."
If someone criticized something you were proud of, you might have concluded, "I shouldn't let people see what I'm good at."
If belonging felt uncertain, you may have learned to watch other people's reactions closely so you could avoid rejection.
Those beliefs and strategies may have helped you navigate life then.
But what helped you survive at one point can sometimes keep you stuck later.
Why Can I Know Something Is True but Still Not Feel It?
This is one of the frustrating experiences people can have with unresolved trauma.
You can intellectually know that you have value while still feeling inadequate.
You can know that someone else's opinion doesn't determine your worth while still feeling intense anxiety when someone disapproves of you.
You can know you're an adult while suddenly feeling very young, powerless, rejected, or frightened in a particular situation.
The goal isn't simply to tell yourself to "think differently."
Trauma therapy can help explore the discrepancy between what you know today and what your nervous system may still be responding to from an earlier experience.
Your Survival Strategies Aren't Necessarily Your Current Reality
Sometimes we continue living according to rules that once helped us feel safer:
Keep everyone happy.
Don't make mistakes.
Don't stand out.
Don't disagree.
Prove yourself.
Don't need anyone.
Always perform.
Always be prepared for rejection.
Your nervous system may be trying to protect you using information that hasn't been updated for your present circumstances.
Healing can involve understanding where those strategies came from, recognizing what your system has been trying to protect you from, and helping your mind and body take in new information.
You survived.
Now you can begin working on the things that may be keeping you in survival mode.
THERAPY WITH MICHELLE
Have you been looking for a Trauma-Informed Therapist who is also a Christian?  Do you want to honor your faith even in your therapy?  Would you love to incorporate deep healing in a way that aligns with God's Word and evidence-based treatments for trauma healing?  
I offer THERAPY INTENSIVES which help you to go deeper and with faster results than weekly therapy can provide.  Learn more at: www.emdrpittsburgh.com.
For a Free Consultation Call:   If you would like to see about working with me in an EMDR Intensive, you can schedule a free 15 minute consultation call so that we can get to know each other and see if I am a good match for your therapy needs. 
Go to www.calendly.com/michellecroyle to connect with me.
 
FACEBOOK COMMUNITY:
Join our free Facebook Community For Encouragement and Support: CLICK HERE
 
FREE RESOURCE:
If this episode resonated, you might be interested in my free resource.   I created a free, faith-honoring guide that gently explains how healing happens in the body and why you're not failing. 
Free Trauma Healing Resource Guide
*All content is for informational and educational purposes only and is not to be considered professional counseling.  If you need professional therapy, please seek it out, and if you are in immediate danger, please contact emergency services near you.

Spiritual Bypassing: When Christian Faith Is Used to Avoid Feelings, Trauma, and Real Healing
What is spiritual bypassing, and how can it affect Christian women struggling with anxiety, trauma, grief, difficult emotions, or painful experiences?
Sometimes well-meaning Christians respond to emotional pain with phrases like "count your blessings," "just have faith," "think positive," or "give it to God." Biblical truth matters—but using spiritual language to minimize, avoid, or shut down genuine emotional pain can keep us from addressing what is actually happening.
In this episode of Trauma Healing for Christian Women, Michelle Croyle, LPC, EMDR-Certified therapist, explores spiritual bypassing in Christianity and why acknowledging painful emotions does not mean that you are failing spiritually or lacking faith.
You can love God deeply and still experience anxiety, grief, anger, fear, hurt, exhaustion, or the effects of trauma.
In This Episode, You'll Learn
What spiritual bypassing is and what it can look like in Christian life
How spiritual language can sometimes be used to minimize emotional pain
Why experiencing anxiety or difficult emotions doesn't automatically mean you lack faith
The difference between acknowledging your emotions and allowing your emotions to control you
How trauma and a lack of felt safety can affect the nervous system
Why "count your blessings" isn't always what a hurting person needs
How spiritual bypassing can happen within relationships and church culture
Why healthy boundaries and acknowledging when something hurt can be important
How Christian faith and emotional honesty can exist together
Why healing doesn't require pretending everything is fine
Jesus did not ignore human suffering. He wept. He cared for people's physical and emotional needs. Throughout Scripture, we see people bringing grief, fear, pain, questions, and distress honestly before God.
Faith doesn't require pretending.
You can acknowledge, "This hurt me," "I'm grieving," "I'm angry," "I'm afraid," or "I need help," while still trusting God.
Sometimes healing begins when we stop trying to put a spiritual bandage over a wound and allow ourselves to acknowledge what is actually there.
Christian Trauma Therapy & EMDR Therapy in Pennsylvania
THERAPY WITH MICHELLE
Have you been looking for a Trauma-Informed Therapist who is also a Christian?  Do you want to honor your faith even in your therapy?  Would you love to incorporate deep healing in a way that aligns with God's Word and evidence-based treatments for trauma healing?  
I offer THERAPY INTENSIVES which help you to go deeper and with faster results than weekly therapy can provide.  Learn more at: www.emdrpittsburgh.com.
For a Free Consultation Call:   If you would like to see about working with me in an EMDR Intensive, you can schedule a free 15 minute consultation call so that we can get to know each other and see if I am a good match for your therapy needs. 
Go to www.calendly.com/michellecroyle to connect with me.
 
FACEBOOK COMMUNITY:
Join our free Facebook Community For Encouragement and Support: CLICK HERE
 
FREE RESOURCE:
If this episode resonated, you might be interested in my free resource.   I created a free, faith-honoring guide that gently explains how healing happens in the body and why you're not failing. 
Free Trauma Healing Resource Guide
*All content is for informational and educational purposes only and is not to be considered professional counseling.  If you need professional therapy, please seek it out, and if you are in immediate danger, please contact emergency services near you.