ResponseABLE Parenting

This past weekend we had experienced several bumpy moments with my ADHD son.
Things that we had been working on that weren't clicking the way I had hoped. Then we had a decent chunk of time where things were going WELL! It was fun, we were enjoying each other and I could see his effort. Then he started asking for some extra things. Nothing crazy, literally an extra scoop of ice cream and some sprinkles. And I could FEEL my body want to grab the "no" and stay there.
I felt an instant resistance to saying yes. This episode dives into WHY I believe this was happening. I also share how I shifted my mindset and how I moved forward after recognizing this resistance.
🎉STOP YELLING! The ADHD Behavior Blueprint is HERE!🎉
If you are sick and tired of the same repetitive behaviors and want to see real and permanent changes with you and your ADHD child, make sure you attend my upcoming FREE masterclass. https://calendly.com/responseableparenting/adhd-masterclass
Please note: these masterclass dates fill up FAST. I am adding as many as I can. If nothing is available on the calendar register on this waitlist:
https://responseableparenting.kit.com/waitlist 
I will blast out new times as often as I can!
If the masterclass is too far away, and you want to take the first step. Grab my 39 minute video / workbook combo where you will learn exactly why you feel so awful in these moments with your ADHD kid AND you'll learn the steps necessary to get out of the heat of the moment and stop reacting so quickly to the same repetitive fight. 
You can grab Before You Lose It right here! https://responseable-community.circle.so/checkout/gap 
And if you want to get started TODAY, jump right into the program. When you join you have MY EYES on your challenging patterns. Not just sometimes. But every single week, multiple times a week. You send me your situations, we work together on calls and inside the program until you have a solution that works for YOUR family. You will walk away with a repeatable system that you can use for any challenging pattern. No more strategy spaghetti, just real solutions that work WITH your ADHD child not against them. 
https://www.responseableparenting.com/join
FREE RESOURCES!
Tired of repeating yourself over the same behaviors? Try this VALUES DECK OF CARDS! You can customize the cards to your family values and instead of dishing out yet another punishment, you can instill positive consequences through the actions on the back!
https://responseableparenting.kit.com/cards

Get the cheat codes to "stack" regulation practices throughout your day! No time to meditate? No problem. Grab this simple system and add ZERO time to your day!
https://responseableparenting.kit.com/zero

Book a call with me to connect on areas of your parenting that are causing pain, struggle, or frustration. https://calendly.com/responseableparenting/call

This week I spoke to over a dozen parents. Every single one said a version of this "If they're like this now…what will they be like as a teenager? As an adult?"

This fear is REAL for parents of ADHD kids. We want to know we've given them everything they need to be successful. Will they take no for an answer or take it too far? Will they be able to handle rejection or criticism? Will they be able to handle the responsibilities of a job? 
This is the episode about what fear is actually doing to us and how it's changing our reactions. And I give you the first step to reverse engineer these fears into skills!
🎉STOP YELLING! The ADHD Behavior Blueprint is HERE!🎉
If you are sick and tired of the same repetitive behaviors and want to see real and permanent changes with you and your ADHD child, make sure you attend my upcoming FREE masterclass. https://calendly.com/responseableparenting/adhd-masterclass
Please note: these masterclass dates fill up FAST. I am adding as many as I can. If nothing is available on the calendar register on this waitlist:
https://responseableparenting.kit.com/waitlist 
I will blast out new times as often as I can!
If the masterclass is too far away, and you want to take the first step. Grab my 39 minute video / workbook combo where you will learn exactly why you feel so awful in these moments with your ADHD kid AND you'll learn the steps necessary to get out of the heat of the moment and stop reacting so quickly to the same repetitive fight. 
You can grab Before You Lose It right here! https://responseable-community.circle.so/checkout/gap 
And if you want to get started TODAY, jump right into the program. When you join you have MY EYES on your challenging patterns. Not just sometimes. But every single week, multiple times a week. You send me your situations, we work together on calls and inside the program until you have a solution that works for YOUR family. You will walk away with a repeatable system that you can use for any challenging pattern. No more strategy spaghetti, just real solutions that work WITH your ADHD child not against them. 
https://www.responseableparenting.com/join
FREE RESOURCES!
Tired of repeating yourself over the same behaviors? Try this VALUES DECK OF CARDS! You can customize the cards to your family values and instead of dishing out yet another punishment, you can instill positive consequences through the actions on the back!
https://responseableparenting.kit.com/cards

Get the cheat codes to "stack" regulation practices throughout your day! No time to meditate? No problem. Grab this simple system and add ZERO time to your day!
https://responseableparenting.kit.com/zero

Book a call with me to connect on areas of your parenting that are causing pain, struggle, or frustration. https://calendly.com/responseableparenting/call

You know that moment, you ask your kid to do something they HAVE to do…like brush their teeth. You get met with a reaction that's far greater than the request. And within seconds you're in a fight with your kid. Based on how many times you've been in this exact same fight, your nervous system is primed for the fight and you go round and round.

In this episode I share the FIRST most critical step to get out of "The Reactive Trap" by identifying your "Expectation Gap." In this episode I share a few real life examples of how I got OUT of "The Reactive Trap" before getting into a fight over the really annoying things that are expected daily. 
You can grab Before You Lose It right here! https://responseable-community.circle.so/checkout/gap 
Join the upcoming masterclass: https://calendly.com/responseableparenting/adhd-masterclass
Jump right into the program: https://www.responseableparenting.com/join


🎉STOP YELLING! The ADHD Behavior Blueprint is HERE!🎉
If you are sick and tired of the same repetitive behaviors and want to see real and permanent changes with you and your ADHD child, make sure you attend my upcoming FREE masterclass. 
I will walk you through my proprietary 8 step method that will teach you exactly what needs to be in place in order to see the changes you want to see. 
Register here to get the details for the latest masterclass!
https://responseableparenting.kit.com/stop
FREE RESOURCES!
Tired of repeating yourself over the same behaviors? Try this VALUES DECK OF CARDS! You can customize the cards to your family values and instead of dishing out yet another punishment, you can instill positive consequences through the actions on the back!
https://responseableparenting.kit.com/cards

Get the cheat codes to "stack" regulation practices throughout your day! No time to meditate? No problem. Grab this simple system and add ZERO time to your day!
https://responseableparenting.kit.com/zero

Book a call with me to connect on areas of your parenting that are causing pain, struggle, or frustration. https://calendly.com/responseableparenting/call

Have you noticed that when your ADHD kid is dysregulated it comes out as being plain nasty?! For lack of a better word, they turn into a total asshole! New EEG research shows that 96% of hyperactive-impulsive ADHD kids have a significant difference in frontal lobe activity during frustrating moments. And the net result is anger and aggression. Of that 96%, 63% is severe. This is important to note, because in neurotypical children, this outcome is 12%. This tells us it's less a behavior choice and more of a wiring reality.
To me, this is empowering. Because now we know more and we can do more with this information. Inside this episode I share some critical mindset shifts as well as practical ways we can start to move the needle forward. 
As promised from the episode here are the 3 next options:
Join the upcoming masterclass: https://calendly.com/responseableparenting/adhd-masterclass

Jump right into the program: https://www.responseableparenting.com/join

Book a Connection Call to talk about 1:1 coaching: https://calendly.com/responseableparenting/call 


Study: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC13018046/


🎉STOP YELLING! How to create a resilient and responsive ADHD home🎉
If you are sick and tired of the same repetitive behaviors and want to see real and permanent changes with you and your ADHD child, make sure you attend my upcoming FREE masterclass. 
I will walk you through my proprietary 8 step method that will teach you exactly what needs to be in place in order to see the changes you want to see. 
Register here to get the details for the latest masterclass!
https://responseableparenting.kit.com/stop
FREE RESOURCES!
Tired of repeating yourself over the same behaviors? Try this VALUES DECK OF CARDS! You can customize the cards to your family values and instead of dishing out yet another punishment, you can instill positive consequences through the actions on the back!
https://responseableparenting.kit.com/cards



Get the cheat codes to "stack" regulation practices throughout your day! No time to meditate? No problem. Grab this simple system and add ZERO time to your day!
https://responseableparenting.kit.com/zero



Book a call with me to connect on areas of your parenting that are causing pain, struggle, or frustration. https://calendly.com/responseableparenting/call

Tim Shurr specializes in rapid mindset transformation for individuals facing ongoing stress and emotional triggers. Over 36 years, Tim has facilitated more than 16,000 belief transformation sessions, working with Fortune 500 execs and top performers to rewire the unconscious patterns that drive 95% of our behaviors. His One Belief Away Method reliably creates fast, lasting shifts that most expect only after years of therapy.
Tim has the ability to locate and upgrade the unconscious belief that creates those patterns in the first place. Instead of teaching people to cope, reframe, or try harder, he retrains the mental operating system with new rules that allow the nervous system to stand down, which is why change happens faster, feels easier, and actually lasts. By updating a single belief, calm, confidence, and consistent action instantly become natural rather than forced.
His style is practical, fast, and highly effective. Tim shares his cutting-edge tools for mastering your life. He has been endorsed by icons such as Bob Proctor, Dr. Denis Waitley, Les Brown, John Assaraf, Ken Blanchard, Brian Tracy, Seth Godin, Dr. Bernie Siegel, and more. He's written 7 books and has been on all major television networks numerous times.
You can find Tim here: https://timshurr.com/ 


🎉STOP YELLING! How to create a resilient and responsive ADHD home🎉
If you are sick and tired of the same repetitive behaviors and want to see real and permanent changes with you and your ADHD child, make sure you attend my upcoming FREE masterclass. 
I will walk you through my proprietary 8 step method that will teach you exactly what needs to be in place in order to see the changes you want to see. 
Register here to get the details for the latest masterclass!
https://responseableparenting.kit.com/stop
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FREE RESOURCES!
Tired of repeating yourself over the same behaviors? Try this VALUES DECK OF CARDS! You can customize the cards to your family values and instead of dishing out yet another punishment, you can instill positive consequences through the actions on the back!
https://responseableparenting.kit.com/cards



Get the cheat codes to "stack" regulation practices throughout your day! No time to meditate? No problem. Grab this simple system and add ZERO time to your day!
https://responseableparenting.kit.com/zero



Book a call with me to connect on areas of your parenting that are causing pain, struggle, or frustration. https://calendly.com/responseableparenting/call